there are girls who like you.
there are girls who are interested in you.
there are girls who are attracted to you.
there are girls who think you are attractive.
and then there are girls who actually care about you. 

how to Identify who is actually the ONE for you?
easy. 
when she puts up with you of all your bs over and over and over and over, when she still continues to be KIND & ENCOURAGER to you even in a number of times you’ve been such a jackass & jerk towards her, when she pursues you because of who you are in the inside and not by what some “title” or “organization” or “higher ranks” say that you’re qualified, and not anything to do with security measure! 

what is security measure?
when a woman puts out a challenge test for you in order to prove security.
example:
man: hey i would like to date you.
woman: i will only date if you marry me.